It all started as a joke on Facebook. Quite honestly, as a way to poke fun at my friends who were “psyched to have the laundry folded” or “feeling fab after running 25 miles without breaking a sweat.” I couldn’t help myself, so I responded by posting the nonsense my kids were saying around the kitchen table because I feel no sense of satisfaction in folding laundry and I only feel badly about myself knowing there’s no way in hell I could run 25 miles.
As I continued to make my ridiculous posts on Facebook, something unexpected began to happen. I became a spectator in my own life. Instead of being overwhelmed by the daily frustrations of motherhood, I started to see the humor in it again…it was a refreshing change.
Now, I look for it in the midst of the ugliness, the frustrating and the insanity that can be parenting. I look for it…the funnies. Instead of getting pulled in, I try to stand back, watch, listen and wait. It never fails that something is said, even briefly, that makes me smile and reminds me why I started this crazy journey as a mother in the first place.
Come and join me in my plight. My plight to find the funny in the frustrating and save my sanity.
There’s some really beautiful about this! It made me realize that that “plight to find the funny in the frustrating and save my sanity” is what I’ve begun to do with my own stuff. Looking forward to reading.
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Thanks for stopping by. Kevin Bacon doesn’t know what he’s missing.
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I found you through Life in the Boomer Lane and I’m so glad I did. It’s nice to know that I’m not alone in sometimes wondering, what in the world is my daughter talking about, and how am I supposed to answer that.
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Thank you Lisa! I too, always feel better when others can relate to all the nonsense. I’m so glad you stopped by because now I can enjoy your blog too. Happy Mother’s Day!
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I too found you through Life in the Boomer Lane and am glad I did. It’s been a long time since I’ve had a kid in the house, but I remember all the loony, zany things that were asked. I look forward to reading more here and thanks for swinging by my blog earlier.
I hope you had an awesome Mother’s Day!
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I’m planning to use a few of these shennanigans as blackmail if necessary. 🙂
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You and I are one in the same…it appears…thanks for finding me off the Good Greatsby. I’m sure we’ll find each others posts quite amusing. Looking forward to developing a great blogging friendship!
Sandi
Lake Forest, CA
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Thanks Sandi…great minds think alike! 😉 Can’t wait to read more!
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Goodness, I’ve only been here a few minutes and I’m loving your blog! Consider me subscribed.
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Welcome Emily! Thanks so much for popping in to check things out and for taking the time to comment. Every time I get a new subsciber I feel like I’ve just won the lottery. If you’re a fan of a lot of nonsense, you’ve come to the right place. 🙂
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Thanks for “liking” my page. I love your blog and just told all my friends and followers to check you out. Your kids’ quotes has me rolling on the floor. Thanks for giving me a laugh, it takes the pressure of me making everyone else laugh off for a while.
Michael
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Thanks so much Michael! I’m truly loving your blog…cracks me up! I look for it daily. Happy birthday and enjoy your day off!
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I proudly added Young American Wisdom to my Blogroll.
Here’s to ya!
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Helga! I’m honored! Thanks so much for stopping in to check things out. I really appreciate it.
Back at ya! 😉
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This is a great site… very funny!! My kids are similar ages, 10 and 13 so I can relate to alot of your posts. Good stuff!!
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Thanks Brown Road! I’m glad you can relate to the nonsense…it’s never ending. 🙂
I’m enjoying your sight as well. Looking forward to reading more.
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Definitely loving your site! Great stuff 🙂
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Thanks so much, Imperfect Momma. I’m happy to have landed on yours, as well. Thanks for reading. 🙂
P.S. I’m having a hard time finding my way back to your blog. I keep getting a “file not found” message. 😦
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I am here via Lenore Diane and I am so glad she suggested it. You (and your kids) are hilarious! I often post the crazy things my kids say on Facebook. Always good to laugh I say. Great blog!
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Welcome, Maineiac! Thanks so much for popping over and for your kind words. They are much appreciated. You’re so right…you gotta keep laughing. 🙂
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Thanks for stopping by my blog. This makes me wish my daughter was still young, and said funny stuff, and stayed off drugs and hadn’t married that bas….. Anyway, great blog!!!
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Thanks, Alan! I’m glad you popped over to check things out. I hope you enjoy the nonsense.
Damn drugs and bast#@d husbands!
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Great, funny blog. Thanks
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Welcome, Jon! Thanks so much for popping over and taking the time to comment. I hope you’ll stop back.
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Great blog, very entertaining. With two little ones myself, I look forward to the gems as they continue to grow their own perspectives of their world. Looking forward also to reading more!
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Welcome, Changed by Change! Thank you so much for the kind words. If I have one piece of advice, it’s to write down all the fun stuff that your little ones are saying. I wish I would have kept a journal earlier. I always thought I’d remember all their little pearls of wisdom, but sadly I didn’t.
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That’s great advice. I already find myself drawing blanks on the things they do and say. and I’ll say it again…I really get a kick out of your blog!
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Thanks so much! I really appreciate the kind words.
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I love the way you put it- “a spectator in my own life”… I like to think of myself as one of those too.. only without quite as many witty and insightful takeaways 😉
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Bree, thanks so much for the kind words. I try my best to be a spectator these days. Time is flying by so fast that it’s frightening.
I hope all the wisdom over here makes you smile. 🙂
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Thanks for visiting my page, I highly appreciate it. Now, I am so glad that I found your blog. You have lots of interesting stuff in here that i want to visit every now and then and follow 🙂
Dolly
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Welcome, Dolly! Thank you so much for the kind words.
I hope this silly little blog brings a smile to your face.
Thank you for reading.
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I love your blog! My girlfriends were the ones that told me to do a blog, after silly posts on facebook about the kids–just like you! I totally get the “Going balls to the wall on the elliptical at the gym and feeling AWESOME!” comments on facebook that seem intended to make everyone else feel like total lazy slackers, and the “off to Publix to get groceries.” inanity. It at least made me feel like I was entertaining someone by posting the latest craziness going on at my house. You’re so right about forcing yourself to slow down and see the humor in parenting our kids–I think it helps us to remember more colorfully the chapter that is our children before they become adults. I look forward to everything you write!
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Thank you, Jen! I’m so happy to hear you can relate. Just wait, in a few more years you’ll be reading, “We knew our sweet little Suzy was super smart, but all A’s again this year!?! She never fails to dazzle us! We’re thinking she’ll be a shoe-in for Mensa.” After you vomit a little in your mouth, you’ll respond by posting some crazy-ass thing your boys just did and I’ll LOVE ya for it! I really appreciate your kind words, they made me smile.
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I have seen you adding comments to The Refrigerator Magnate’s Space and so out of interest, and of course being a tad nosy I decided to call into your neighbourhood to see what your world of blogging is all about, and now that I am here I think that I shall return and venture through some of your postings, in the meantime (if my Gravatar doesn’t give a dark and wicked impression :() you can call into My Gothic Realm and hedge past the Skeletons and Werewolves…
Well just for a little peep maybe? Don’t worry it is a friendly Space, but one that has a few Ghouls, Vampires and Zombies running around in it, all expertly tamed of course 🙂
Have a fun weekend my friend…
Androgoth
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Welcome, Androgoth! Glad you popped over to say hello.
Don’t worry, Vampires and Zombies won’t keep me away. It’s the whining, crying children that scare the hell out of me and make me seek shelter under my bed!
Happy weekend to you, too!
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Thank you for calling by Nancy it is very nice to see you in My Gothic Realm and I just wanted to call back and say this before I leave for the morning, well it is rather late here in the United Kingdom but as I am a night owl and often burning the candle at both ends it is quite normal, perhaps it is the Vampire in me? 🙂 lol
Have a delightful rest of
evening and a lovely Saturday 🙂
Androgoth
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I am just calling by to wish
you a fine day today Nancy 🙂
Androgoth Xx
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Thanks, Androgoth!
Have a wonderful week!
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Humour – always a good thing to look for and find! I look forward to following your blog. cheers, A
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Welcome, Alliwaw! I do my best to keep laughing to prevent myself from crying.
Thank you for the kind comments.
Cheers right back at ya!
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YAW, its like they were born with the funny bone first. I think my oldest has such a great sense of humor as she loves of entertain and be the center of attention. did she get this from me? Or are our kids just that good-naturedly funny? It still amazes me what comes out of their mouth. Your dialogs are hilarious. Thanks for sharing! I hafta go…mine just told me its time for the party and she brought my ‘dress-up’ (a pink tu-tu)
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Thanks so much for stopping by and welcome, Our Life in 3D!
I think all kids are born naturally funny. It’s just that sometimes the world prevents them from staying that way.
I hope you wore that tu-tu like a real life ballerina! 🙂
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Even though I haven’t been following you for that long, I’ve enjoyed your posts (and I appreciate you’ve been reading my blog, as well). So I nominated you for The Sunshine Award for bloggers. Check out my latest post for details: http://stacydymalski.wordpress.com/2012/03/18/competition-comes-in-all-forms-but-i-like-winning-blogging-awards-best/.
And thanks again for being so supportive!
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Stacy! That is so nice…I’m thrilled! I’ll be heading over soon to check it out. You’ve made my day. 🙂
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This is such a great blog! Usually I’m so bummed about my kids (3 yrs and a newborn) getting older, but this is totally making me look forward to it! A little. Maybe ONE of them could stay a baby.
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Aww, thanks for reading and for the kind words, Stephicakes. Don’t worry…your baby will always be your baby.
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Just thought that i would call in for a bit
and make sure that you are behaving yourself 🙂 lol
If you ever fancy calling into the Skeleton den
then just rap on the gates (Nooooo Rapping ‘n’
Singing Though, Just a rap Okay? 🙂 )
Have fun now my friend 🙂
Androgoth XXx
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I have absolutely not been behaving myself as I have been neglectful of my bloggy friends!
Listen for my rap, I’ll be stopping by shortly. 🙂
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Andro,
I came and knocked, but the door was locked.
I need the secret password. 😉
Have a great night!
Nancy
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Hey I just let you in 🙂 🙂
Androgoth XXx
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Hilarious. I just found your blog and it is cracking me up. I’m adding you to my blog’s blogroll. I love the quotes and the crazy things our children say. My 3 yr old daughter told me today that her underwear was stuck in her Virginia.
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Aw, thanks for making your way over to my blog. Stuck in her Virginia? Now that’s funny! They do really say the craziest things! 🙂
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Hey you Snoop Dog expert! I joined Klout and it recommended you as a influencer.
Take a look at this photo to see what you are an expert at. It’s hilarious! 🙂 http://japaneseghost.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Snoop-Dog.png
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Now, that’s funny! Snoop would have a heart attack if he knew some random minivan driving white mom from the suburbs was considered a Snoop Dog expert.
I still don’t get the whole Klout thing. Should I bother with it?
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Your blog is hilarious! As Arnold Schwarzenegger once said when the were choosing parts for the school play about composers, “I’ll be Bach.”
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You got an award!
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Aww! Thanks so much. I’ll be over shortly to check it out!
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